Why Women Should Vote (an email)

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I've read a lot of those woman's biography's. The things they stood up for and against are truly amazing and something we should never forget.
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We are forever in their debt. How dare we, as many voters may yet, abuse that right by voting for a woman because she is a woman, any less than those women were denied the right because they were women. Being female is no excuse for denial and not a reason for the privilege of leadership.
Thanks, dewitte! Very timely.
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It's amazing that after all that work there are women who just don't bother to go vote.
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Oh, DeWitte. Thanks. You are my heeeero.
Oh please...so just because I am a woman I should go vote? Or I should be an astronaut because all those women fought for the right for women to become astronauts?That is a rubbish statement. I can appreciate the dedication,sacrifice and hard work without using the freedoms they won for me....THAT is what being free means.

Oh and by the way...I DO vote. I just don't buy the fact that women who don't are somehow deficient and ungrateful.

Oh please...so just because I am a woman I should go vote?

No. You should vote because you are an American citizen and it's your duty. And I buy into the philosophy that any citizen who does not vote is somehow deficient and ungrateful, but because of this nation's history I would say that blacks and women who don't vote are especially so.

Sure we have the right to not vote. But people who don't take part in the process have no right to complain about the results. Too bad they refuse to realize that and complain anyway.

You responded very nicely while I was trying to figure out how to roll my eyes hard enough to express exactly how obnoxious that sentiment was. ;)

Can you teach me how to do that?

Can you teach me how to do that?

It's just years of experience tip-toeing through mine fields. I am neither a left wing bleeding heart liberal nor a right wing fundamentalist conservative, yet I seem to be surrounded by both. And I had to adjust my wording on that comment 3 or 4 times before I felt it was polite enough to post.
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I will have to see if I can view that movie. Thank you!
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Great post, DeWitte. Please thank the person who sent that email! Love the old B and W photos. I have a photo like that of my grandma and I treasure her strength and courage every day, just like I value that of the women pictured here.

What ticks me off is that I wrote in Gore for the primaries, but does that get recorded? No. I did it not because he'd get elected (obviously he won't) but to send a message that I'm dissatisfied with our current choices. (Of course it's probably due to those who write in their dog Fluffy or something LOL)

If we have the right to vote, we should also have the right to send a message through our "right" to write someone in. It's a shame we're forced into a corner of just a handful of candidates.

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Great article! Here's another to go with it.

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Charlie Parkhurst had a secret. People had noticed that Charlie never talked much about his past or himself, but then, that wasn't unusual in California in the 1800s. Lots of people had pasts that they didn't want brought up. Charlie's secret however, was different from most.

Charlie had been born in New Hampshire sometime around 1810. Some say Charlie was an orphan and some say Charlie grew up on an uncle's ranch, but all accounts agree that Charlie grew up loving horses. Charlie had a "way" with horses and often said he got along better with horses than with people. When Charlie was 12 he ran away, because he was being forced out of the stable work he'd done up until then. Charlie gradually worked his way out west...arriving in California sometime around 1850. There he became a stagecoach driver for Wells Fargo, steering six horse teams over narrow, windy Sierra Nevada roads.

Charlie was known for being one of the safest and most reliable stagecoach drivers in California. Stagecoach robberies were common in those days, and Charlie was robbed twice. The first time, the villians got away with the gold that the coach had been carrying. The second time Charlie was prepared and coldly pulled out his gun and shot both would-be bandits dead. Charlie was never robbed after that.

Most people liked Charlie Parkhurst. He was known to be rather stand-offish and shy, but he was kind and often helped people in need. One story of tells of a widow about to lose her farm. Charlie took out his savings and paid off the deed on the farm, saving the woman's home. Charlie drank, smoked, played cards, and shook dice with the rest of the drivers, but he never got too close to anyone. He never married either, nor did he ever visit the whorehouses or brothels that were common in those days. Charlie pretty much stayed to himself.

Charlie retired from stagecoach driving around 1865, having had enough of the mud and cold. He opened a stage stop and saloon, and eventually did some cattle ranching and even chicken farming when he got really old. His last years of life were spent with a bachelor partner in a small cabin near Watsonville, California.

Charlie died December 29, 1979. That's when his secret was revealed. Charlie Parkhurst was a woman. Apparently Charlie had run away from the orphanage when they attempted to train her in "womanly duties" at age 12. Charlie dressed and acted like a man from that day on, even registering and voting in 1868, some 52 years before women could legally vote.

Charlie's was buried in Pioneer cemetary in Freedom, California. Her tombstone reads simply "Parkhurst" and no one was really sure what her real name was.

Well I am not an American citizen but even when i did live over there and had the right to vote in local elections I didn't do it because I was a woman.
I am certainly not a bleeding heart liberal or a right wing fund. cons either but I have my own mind and I don't base my convictions along ANY party lines.
As for having to "adjust your wording...." before you posted that comment that shows how knee jerk you find this issue which it shouldn't be really.. My comment was not worded impolitely and I was not attacking you per se and I never found myself feeling I should be rude or 'yell' to get my point across..
Also...people who do not vote and still complain about the process and results may not have any legitimate cause for complaint but they are still free to do so.
People are not perfect little political packages and neither are they always consistent or even logical. For instance I am pro choice but also pro death penalty. I think regular people shouldn't be allowed to carry guns unless they are using them to hunt for food but if someone killed a person I loved I would happily take a gun and shoot them in the head.
I'm a human being before I am anything else political...and that includes being a woman as today it seems you cannot be a woman without it becoming political.

My mother's ancestors were mostly Mormon, and the Mormons granted women suffrage in Utah in 1870. The US Congress later disenfranchised women, and the battle had to be fought all over.


I am certainly not a bleeding heart liberal or a right wing fund. cons either but I have my own mind and I don't base my convictions along ANY party lines.

Which is exactly how it should be.


As for having to "adjust your wording...." before you posted that comment that shows how knee jerk you find this issue which it shouldn't be really..

No, it shows what a smart ass mouth I have and that I have to work to keep it under control.

My comment was not worded impolitely and I was not attacking you per se and I never found myself feeling I should be rude or 'yell' to get my point across..

I don't believe I accused you of any such thing.


Also...people who do not vote and still complain about the process and results may not have any legitimate cause for complaint but they are still free to do so.

Yes, we do still have freedom of speech here. As it should be. What I should have said is "But people who don't take part in the process have no cause to complain about the results. Too bad they refuse to realize that and complain anyway."


People are not perfect little political packages and neither are they always consistent or even logical.

That's even true of me. We are all, first of all, human and come complete with differing opinions which most certainly makes the world more interesting and fun.


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I voxed you.

Incredible post.

Thank you - and thanks for the mention on your page!

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